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Vinod Anand
PROCRASTINATION is a type of behavior which is
characterized by deferment of actions or tasks to
a later time. The word itself comes from the Latin
word procrastinatus: pro- (forward) and crastinus
(of tomorrow). It refers to task avoidance or
delay. In fact, it is the thief of time where
there is a delayed action, and one keeps on
putting off something that requires immediate
attention.
It means postponement of doing what one
should be doing; In other words, it means putting
off doing something, especially out of habitual
carelessness or laziness. It also means postponing
or delaying needlessly, and acting later than
planned, scheduled, or required.
Quite often
people say that they would do a given job tomorrow
without knowing that tomorrow never comes. The
present is always “today”, and, therefore, saying
that they would do the task tomorrow implies that
they would never do it.
From one perspective, there appear to be three
criteria for a behaviour to be classified as
procrastination: it must be counterproductive,
needless, and delaying. From another angle it is
of two kinds: a) the relaxed type: here the
postponement of the given responsibility is viewed
by the given person (the procrastinator)
negatively, and as such, it is avoided by
directing energy into other tasks.
It is common,
for example, for relaxed type procrastinating
children to abandon schoolwork but not their
social lives. Students often see projects as a
whole rather than breaking them into smaller
parts. This type of procrastination is a form of
denial or cover-up; therefore, typically no help
is being sought. Furthermore, they are also unable
to defer gratification.
The procrastinator avoids
situations that would cause displeasure, indulging
instead in more enjoyable activities. Such
procrastinators refuse to renounce the pleasure
principle, instead sacrificing the reality
principle; and b) the tense-afraid type: it is
usually linked with negative feelings like
overwhelmed with pressure, unrealistic about time,
uncertain about goals.
The procrastinator feels he
lacks the ability or focus to successfully
complete his work, he tells himself that he needs
to unwind and relax, that it's better to take it
easy for the afternoon, for example, and start
afresh in the morning. He usually has grandiose
plans that aren't realistic.
His 'relaxing' is
often temporary and ineffective, and leads to even
more stress as time runs out, deadlines approach
and the person feels increasingly guilty and
apprehensive This behavior becomes a cycle of
failure and delay, as plans and goals are put off,
penciled into the following day or week in the
diary again and again.
It can also have a
debilitating effect on his personal life and
relationships. Since he is uncertain about his
goals, he often feels awkward with people who
appear confident and goal-oriented, which can lead
to depression.
Tense-afraid procrastinators often
withdraw from social life, avoiding contact even
with close friends.
According to It's About Time by Dr. Linda Sapadin
there are six types of procrastination that a
person can be solely or a combination of. The
styles are The Perfectionist, The Crisis-Maker,
The Dreamer, The Defier, The Worrier and The
Overdoer. Each title is self explanatory though
each has a unique way of overcoming each type.
The lesson that we have to learn from what I have
said above, though briefly, is that we should do
two things everyday: a) try to finish the task
that we have been postponing, and b) try to do
something new.
Once we are used to these two things of daily
routine, procrastination would say good bye to us.
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Government ready to facilitate return of Sikh
youth: Chidambaram
ON the lines of the offer made to Kashmiri
militants, Home Minister P. Chidambaram said the
Government is ready to facilitate the return of
Sikh youth who took political asylum abroad during
militancy in Punjab, provided they give up
violence.
“If Sikh youth want to return, having given up
militancy, giving up violence, given up the
demands of Khalistan, (then) we will certainly
facilitate the return of Sikh youth,” he said.
Mr. Chidambaram’s remarks comes two days after
Punjab Chief Minister Parkash Singh Badal slammed
the Centre for leaving Sikh youths out of the
ambit of its proposed move to facilitate the
return of Kashmiri militants who have crossed over
to Pakistan-occupied Kashmir (PoK) if they shun
the path of violence.
The Home Minister said, “If the government of
Punjab wishes to draw up a scheme, I will be very
happy to consider that.”
He was speaking after laying the foundation stone
of country’s first integrated check post, which
will provide support facilities to ensure smooth
movement of people, goods and transport across the
Indo-Pak border.
“When the country is one, what is the harm in
giving general amnesty to Sikh youth who want to
shun violence and join the mainstream,” Mr. Badal
had said.
Jammu and Kashmir Chief Minister Omar Abdullah had
raised the issue of surrender policy for Kashmir
militants during the conference on Internal
Security in Delhi earlier this month.
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